User blog comment:Otakuknight 79/I'm taking a break/@comment-3507136-20160704093539

Ok, this is getting silly. While I respect your willingness to take the blame and responsibility, this in turn does nothing in my own opinion.

Firstly, yes Caring16 has TEMPORARILY left. That much is true, but you are in no way whatsoever a big reason for her leaving. That is something entirely of her own accord in turn with an accumulation of negative emotions as well as probable guilt for obvious misbehaviour. You're not responsible for any one but yourself, and you did not make her do everything or say everything she did. That was her own choice.

Secondly, yes, that kind of message had no positive impact on her as an individual. HOWEVER. It was MEANT to be seen. If it wasn't then what would be the point in putting it on chat in the first place? Only to conveniently put it there the moment I'd gone so that I couldn't see? No. It is obvious that it would come round to me. That is not your fault or problem, you literally just relayed a message to me that someone else would have if you didn't. That I guarantee. However, your way of messaging it to me, i.e. 'Title' and 'message at the end' were definitely an incredibly blunt and rude way of putting it. There were much better ways to deal with the problem or event. The only thing wrong with what you put on my page was the attitude you had written it with.

Third, I'm glad that you can see the negative aspect behind your words on the individual they were aimed at. In a sense I'm glad you feel guilt for it, it shows that you're human and accept your errors as well as feel bad for making mistakes. Which happens to all of us. All I can say is if you're 100% certain on taking  a break from the wikia, use the time to reflect on your attitude and ways to steer away from doing something stupid on the wikia when you're angry or irritated.

But as far as myself and anyone else is concerned, you're not a major reason for Carings departure.

I think I'm done... not sure... absolutely exhausted so I may have missed something....

Anyway.

tl;dr wasn't your fault, don't need to take the break, better ways to message people, just stay away from wiki when angry.